Wedding Guest Weekly glossary
Black tie optional
A dress code meaning tuxedos are welcome but dark suits are equally correct; formality is expected, the tux itself is the optional part.
Cocktail attire
The modern default wedding code: knee-to-midi dresses or dressy separates; suits with ties for men.
Semi-formal
Cocktail's near-twin, calibrated by time of day - lighter colors and fabrics for daytime, darker for evening.
Block heel
A wide, stacked heel that distributes weight - the standard solution for outdoor ceremonies on grass or gravel.
Festive attire
Cocktail attire plus explicit permission for bold color and playful accessories; the personality-encouraged code.
Creative black tie
Formal dress code allowing one unconventional element (colored jacket, statement accessory) on a black-tie base.
Frequently asked questions
How dressy is a courthouse wedding for guests?
One step above business casual: a midi dress, tailored jumpsuit, or suit. The group is small, so polish is very visible.
What colors suit a daytime courthouse wedding?
Jewel tones, rich neutrals, and autumn prints in matte fabrics. They handle mixed daytime lighting well.
What shoes work for a courthouse wedding day?
Block heels, dressy flats, or loafers. The day includes stairs, lines, and usually a walk to a meal.